Hi
has been some time.
just want to share
29 August 2015 , im engaged
29 April 2016 , im married Alhamdulillah :)
Introduce myself again,
Afiqah Binti Khalid is
a third daughter from all-girls siblings.
grew up in Setapak
now I live in Cheras
got scholarship from Malaysia's Ministry Of Education
has a degree : Bachelor Of Science (Major in Physics) from University Of Sydney
completed my Post-Graduate Diploma Of Education
waiting for posting as a Teacher in government school.
literally jobless now but already signed the offer letter as a Teacher Assistant in one of the private school starting in late August insyaAllahh
last few days
my aunt said, "Harapnya berjaya jugaklah macam alang (which is me)"
n i said "insyaAllah"
its actually strike me. before i answered anything i was thinking; am i?
berjaya = successful
am i already 'berjaya'?
if u define success as finished your study , yes i am successful.
if u define success as in got a scholarship, alhamdulillah i am successful.
but if u define success as has a job or well-going career pathway, im still not
if u define it as own a house, a car or any luxurious thing, im still not
if u define it as u make a lot of money untill u can travel the world non-stop, im still not
So, what is your definition of success?
Is it having a nice happy family is a success?
Is t having a nice career with high-income is a success?
Is a person should have a successful bussiness to be called as successful?
For me, it was so subjective and wide. if i see it with a very details point of view, i would say every single thing we did the best is a success. if i see it with a bigger point of view, all those things above and other things can be a definition of success to a lot of people. and of course we can have different opinions. For me who are we to judge? Allah s.w.t is all-knowing. Only him know who are the successful one. Whatever good or bad things that happen to us it does not mean we fail. sometimes all those things are the challenge to make us succeed. So sometimes teh poor or the bad luck one is more successful than the lucky-one. But Allah's promise is always there too, Allah said Allah will give to whoever he want to give. N Allah S.w.t is the most-giving. so the lucky-ones might be really succesful in dunya and also akhirat due to their good deeds. So for me, who are we to judge? Just hope we will reach our real success.
Semoga kita diantara yang berjaya pada Allah S.w.t.
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